Monday, February 07, 2011

Nearly 80 and Rejections

No. The title does not relate to how old I might be feeling. I'm actually feeling rather well at the moment. Let's hope that lasts.

"Nearly 80"  refers to the number of stories I've read over the past seven days, while being Guest Editor at the wonderful Smokelong Quarterly. I enjoyed it enormously, mostly, because the majority of those stories were really, really good, if not excellent. Which makes picking a winner very difficult. You will have to wait until the middle of next month to see which I picked.

What I wanted to say though - and this is An Important Thing, for any writer - is that even really excellent stories get rejected and being rejected isn't necessarily a reflection of a story's quality. Sometimes, of course, it is - and that's an easy thing to fix: keep writing and keep improving. But what to say to the writers of good stuff that, despite it being good has been rejected? Mostly: don't take it personally. Look for potential new homes for it and accept that, sometimes, it's not what an editor's looking for. Simple as that.

Of course, you should look at your story again and see if it can be improved, whether or not you've achieved what you wanted to achieve with it. And you should probably call the person who rejected it an idiot. I'm fine with that.

But don't, whatever you do, give up.

Someone said to me once that 'getting rejections means you're a writer' and they were right.

So, thanks to all who sent things in and I'm sorry if I've disappointed people in rejecting them. But at least I know that everyone I did say 'no' to is a writer. And that can't be too bad a thing, surely...!

22 comments:

Vanessa Gebbie said...

What a lovely post. All aspiring writers ought to pin this up on their noticeboards.

jonathan pinnock said...

Absolutely. Even if I was *sniff* one of your rejectees :) The good thing is that I now have one more story that I didn't before the beginning of last week and one that I think I can do something with.

Julia Bohanna said...

It's hard for writers being on the other side of the curtain - you know too well what goes into writing a piece. Sweat, angst and hope, mostly. But it is an essential skill for a writer - to learn to be rejected and then to take that rejected piece and ask questions. Is it just not suitable for the publication? Does it need spit or polish?

Like JP, I am also a rejectee but I am a optimistic writer. Like him too I have one more story. That is what is important.

Wouldn't dream of calling you an idiot, Nik....as you are far from that.....

It's a great process, to sub. Out goes the bait and sometimes you catch something. Other times it does not work. But just sitting by the water can be a sobering event.....

Kathryn's Daily Writing Workout said...

Any advice for two rejections in one week please?!

Not only was your post nice but it's good to read comments by other 'rejectees' so thank you for that as well as your kind words.

Claire King said...

Great post, Nik - It's got to be helpful to depersonalise the rejections we get and put them in context. Thanks!

Martha said...

Hi Nik -- I'm gutted, my PC was playing up last week and I couldn't access Blogger, so I missed that you were on Smokelong. Are you going to do it again?

I don't mind rejections, they're just little inverse hugs -- albeit kicky, pinchy ones -- and almost invariably food for thought. (Have you seen Dylan Moran's 'Rejection' clip on youtube?)

Anyway, congrats on the reading, and a great post here. M

p.s. Blogger is asking me to type 'pantrag' to prove I am not a bot... ah, the things we do...

jonathan pinnock said...

The other important thing is that if you're not being rejected on a fairly regular basis, you're not aiming high enough.

Nik Perring said...

Thanks V! They are very much welcome to!!

Nik Perring said...

Jonathon - oh 'eck. Sorry! (This is the difficult side to doing this sort of thing.)

But you're right - if you've another story then you've another possible acceptance, and that IS a good thing.

And yes, if you're getting rejections you're (most likely) sending things to the right places.

Nik Perring said...

Yep, true, Julia. Though sometimes there's absolutely nothing wrong with the piece at all - it's just bad luck...

Nik Perring said...

Kathryn - advice? Don't let it get you down. It's simply part of the process (though I'll admit, it still hurts me...!).

And what a good point - it's good to be reminded that we're all in this together!

Nik Perring said...

Thanks Claire!

Nik Perring said...

Martha - thank you. Shame you couldn't send something in. Am I doing it again? I've no plans, but it would be cool...

dan powell said...

Wow. 80 stories. That number, the nice tone of the rejection email and the sentiments of this post goes a long way to soften being one of the 79.

It must have been really hard to pick just one story from that number. I'm also impressed with how much reading (and re-reading) you must have done this last week or so to get to a final selection.

Now I'm off to follow your advice and look at my story again. Thanks for posting this.

Sherri said...

Don't worry, Nik, we'll all recover - eventually! :)

Some lovely thoughts in your post and in the comments. I particularly like JP's attitude and am pleased to see that I must be aiming high.

Looking forwrad to reading the story you chose - I'm sure it's a cracker.

Nik Perring said...

Dan - sorry! But I'm glad that blow was cushioned.

Picking a winner was really, really difficult - but I'm certain the one that won out is a belter.

The reading pretty much filled my afternoons last week, but it was a joy because the stories were just so good.

Best of luck finding a home for yours, Dan! And thanks for popping over!

Nik

Nik Perring said...

Thanks Sherri

Ah yes, Mr Pinnock talks a lot of sense!

And I hope you think it's a cracker - I do!

Downith said...

Wonderful perspective Nic. Thanks for making me feel better about rejection.

Nik Perring said...

Downith - glad you found it useful! And lovely to see you over here.

N

M L Poncelet said...

I admire your tenacity! But also I think in this fast changing world of self-publishing I think that there are other options.

Nik Perring said...

Self publishing is always an option, and a very good one at times, I'm sure.

Nik Perring said...

Just to confirm, J L (I may have misread your comment earlier) Smokelong aren't self publishers - they're a lit-zine, and a very good one too. I'm not too familiar with self-publishing but, as I said, I'm certain it's a great option at times.

Sorry if I've confused myself!